Hiya! As promised, here’s an update on life after returning to work. It’s been over a month since I last posted. So sorry for being MIA!! I don’t like making excuses, but I do have a couple. 😉 Firstly, we’ve been sick as dogs for over a month thanks to the super bug my daughter bought home from daycare. Only in the last two weeks or so have we been feeling human again. Scratch that. Since starting this post, we had a stomach bug and baby is sick again. 🙁 Secondly, since returning to work,
I am just plain tired all the time and have less free time to blog. Well, just in case you were wondering, I thought I would fill you in on how things are going….
Before I went back to work, I was very concerned that my daughter would not adjust to being in daycare. This is because she was very unhappy, by unhappy I mean cried A LOT, during gradual entry. Even during the first couple of weeks after gradual entry, she cried quite a bit, but that could’ve been partly because she was extra cranky from being sick. Luckily, my husband does the pick up and drop off so I don’t have to see her being upset. In the last three weeks, though, things have changed. She now willingly goes to the daycare teachers, when before it required some coaxing and distractions. She doesn’t cry when my husband leaves. She just waves good-bye. They tell us that she doesn’t cry anymore while she’s there. She’s doing well, eats a lot and sleeps well. In fact she naps longer when she’s in daycare than at home. When my husband picks her up, he finds her happily playing. She waves at him when she sees him and doesn’t whine or cry for him to pick her up. This change is bittersweet for my husband and I. We are happy that she is finally comfortable in the care of others, but we are also a bit sad that she doesn’t need us all the time anymore. My baby is growing up… 🙁
Work has been okay. I’ve been pretty good at going home on time and not working crazy hours. I’ve only had two long days thus far. But then again, I’ve just started two new projects and the work load hasn’t gotten too heavy yet. Pre-baby days, I used to work minimum 10 hour days and also worked on the weekends often. Hopefully, those days are long gone as my priorities have now changed.
Having a child certainly changes things. We are no longer on our own schedule. We cannot come and go as we please. After rushing home from work, we try to get dinner on the table as soon as possible so that we can all have dinner together and spend a little time together before baby’s 7:30pm bedtime. Cooking dinner or doing anything for that matter is a challenge these days. Baby has yet to outgrow her separation anxiety. In order to get anything done, one of us stays with her while the other cooks or cleans. Either that or we get our chores done while she’s napping or after she’s down for the night. Because of this, we try to make quick and easy meals, like Charlie’s lemongrass pork (also tastes great with boneless chicken thighs). We try to plan out our meals for the week so that we know exactly what we’re going to eat. Weekends are left for the fun stuff: laundry, cleaning and grocery shopping. Why does it seem like there are always endless piles of dishes and laundry to do? 🙁
Tired all the time
You guessed it. I am tired all the time! Doesn’t help that for the past month, baby has decided 5:30am is a good time to wake up. 😛 Doesn’t matter that I get at least 6 hours of sleep each night. By mid-week, I am ready to conk out pretty much right after baby goes to bed. Maybe my low energy is from all the rushing around I do all day. Rushing to get out of the house in the morning to beat traffic and get to work early. Rushing at work to get all my stuff done. Rushing home to make dinner. Rush, rush, rush. I signed up for yoga to slow down, to relax and for some “me time”. Even though class is only once a week, I’ve managed to miss half of them due to either being sick, coming home late from work and just wanting to spend more time with baby. There are not enough hours in the day!
That’s all for now, folks.
How do you find balance between family and work? How do you find time to do everything? Please share!